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Why Does She Act Like This? The High Conflict Ex Explained

HIGH CONFLICT EXPLAINED

3 June 2025

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“Why can’t she just be normal?”


We’ve all asked that question – and today, I’m going to answer it.


So many stepmums are stuck in a cycle of confusion – one minute the ex is making accusations, the next she’s demanding updates. It feels chaotic and personal. 


In this episode, I’ll walk you through what’s really behind her chaotic behaviour – and why it’s not as random as it seems.


There’s a pattern. And once you start to see it, things begin to make a lot more sense.


If you’re exhausted from trying to fix the unfixable, this might be the shift you’ve been needing.



WHAT YOU'LL LEARN


  • What’s really driving her chaos (and no, it’s not about you)

  • The 4 key patterns behind high conflict behaviour

  • How understanding the patterns frees you from emotional exhaustion



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Hi, I'm Kellie

I'm a stepmum of two, high conflict survivor and a certified coach. I help stepmums handle the sh*t that comes with the ex, with no-BS strategies that actually work (I know because I use them myself).

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